Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Sadness

Hello Everyone, I've decided to write this post about something that we all have to go through, it's something that none of us like. Sadness, Pain, something has happened to make us hurt inside, A lot. Such is life, something we have to face, If you are sad because something happened, you have every right to be upset, to have these feelings is completely normal, you are allowed to cry and let it out. There is nothing wrong with it.

All good things must come to an end, but all bad things can continue forever. It will seem this way, and these bad things most likely will be gigantic unavoidable roadblocks in your life. But think, if you overcome them, you will be a stronger and wiser person. Overcoming this will be a great accomplishment and you will feel better once you have conquered what has hurt you.

And when in doubt
Remember
This too will pass

And you will feel better, even if you feel the lowest of the low. If you've done something you regret, if you're in trouble or if something happened to you that just made you feel unbearably upset.
That is the worst kind, unlucky misfortunes. Things that happen just because life is unfair.
If something like this happened to you or someone you know, please please, give them your utmost support and condolences, I wouldn't wish this type of despair on anybody.
I know I like supporting people in need. But if there is nothing I can do, all I can say is that you should; Smile, even if it's a sad smile, because sadder than a sad smile is the sadness of not knowing how to smile.

And I know, it may feel that your heart has shattered into a million pieces, or you feel like something was ripped away from you, or you feel that you just want to curl up and die.
Nothing should ever happen to make you have feelings of death.

"Sad are only those who understand" - Arab Proverb

This is why I feel sad when people around me are. I understand and I feel the pain, its Empathy

If you feel lost, if you feel that you cannot cope, don't turn to dangerous things, like drugs or alcohol. Turn to those that love you, even if you know they cannot help, it's always a good feeling to know that you're loved.

I know that any of you reading this can turn to me. I want to tell you that I am here, and I will offer any support and comfort I can.
As Helen Keller once said "Believe, when you are most unhappy, that there is something for you to do in the world. So long as you sweeten an other's pain, life is not in vain."

Thank you for reading this :) We all have to deal with it, and there are a thousand ways to be happy, but it only takes one to get you to smile

In life just
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind. - Dr. Seuss

2 comments:

  1. oh don't we just?
    "life's a bitch then you live to go through it all over again"

    but I prefer

    "Life's a climb, but the view is great"

    I mean, I've been pretty much broken in these last few weeks, but it's amazing how much superglue and duct tape your friends seem to collect

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  2. My life feels like one big piece of sadness, and not really for any good reason too, which just makes me feel worse... but I agree with the person above; friends do help. Nice post btw

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